"i was afraid because not only me even every part of my family will be harmed , non of my relatives can live there normal lives simply and this anti Qaddafi stigma can be inherited too , and you cant get paper that you dont have any anti Qaddafi relatives"
Sunday, September 18, 2011
This post is about answering a number of questions that you have posed to me in your emails. I tried to combine them all in one place. I probably did something similar about five years ago …. I hope it helps assuage the readers curiousity.
For the record, I am a native Libyan who has lived the majority of her life in Tripoli with my family. Yes obviously the war has affected our daily life in Tripoli. The majority had a similar experience to what Khadijater wrote in her diary of the past few months.
Not going to work meant that I had a lot of time on my hand. At the end of February beginning of March I passed through a phase of stupor where I would be sleeping a lot of the time during the day. I think it was a 10 day period. Then I got myself together and realised there was no point in having a nervous breakdown because it was just not my style. I looked at myself in the mirror on that fateful morning and saw how my once black hair had turned white. It was not like having your first warning of white hairs no it was whole patches of white hair, pepper and salt . Now people tell me it's not really that much but I notice it is , the black does not look the jet black of old times because the white is tempering in. It was a shock for me. Not the shock of getting old, I know my age lol, but the shock of it happening overnight.
Life was never the same not only for us in Tripoli but for any of us in Libya. Before the uprising most Libyans had stopped watching Libyan state TV ( there was not any other kind of Libyan TV anyway) except for Ramadan when we liked to watch the Libyan programmes. But once the war started we would be checking the Libyan TV along with all the other satellite channels. The Libyan media was taken aback at the beginning but they quickly recovered and deployed all their arsenal. To be honest we have to give them credit for putting up that façade for so long. Six months is a long time to stand in the face of the international deluge and giant media machine.
Regardless of whether you were pro or anti Gaddafi, those people manning the broadcasting station had the hardest job of all. To be vilified by millions and yet keep having to do this job because it was a matter of not your own survival but probably that of your family members. Just check what Ruwida has to say:
She is talking about blogging but this applies to anything in Libya. This is someone who lives thousands of kilometers away from Tripoli in Benghazi and can still feel the heavy arm of the Gaddafi regime so what do you think is the fate of those living in Tripoli where he has all his 'machine' with him ?
Having an anti – Gaddafi stigma is non erasable even if you have been informed it was forgotten and you were forgiven, they can still throw it at your face whenever they want. Being neutral was slightly safer until someone decided to 'out' you to the authorities and then only God could help you. This poisoned atmosphere is how we lived for 40 years and it has increased a hundred fold by the first week of February 2011. Is it any wonder why so many Libyans had heart disease, diabetes, hypertension and even cancer or why are we on the top list of dangerous driving countries ?
Just some food for thought, there will probably be a sequel for this post so much pent up stuff that needs to be released.